Andrew,
On Chris Schwarz's Tool Blog "Never Sponsored" (Entry may be be behind a paywall) he expresses his opinion on ROS.
https://neversponsored.substack.com/p/sand-without-dust-or-bs?utm_source=publication-search
Marc Spagnolo (AKA The Wood Whisperer) on Festool v. Mirka
https://youtu.be/IuXRRG3Xbys?si=06bztCUMjRUtVgIV
On 6" vs 5" I've had Porter Cable both 6" & 5" - I like the form factor of the 5" even though I thought I'd like the 6" better. The 6" disks are harder to find but not impossible to get (Klingspore sells them) but if you have to make a quick run to Rocky's you may be disappointed since most stores only carry 5". The internet is your friend here.
Please keep us posted as I'm haveing the internal struggle with upgrading a ROS system myself. 3M, Festool, Mirka, SurfPrep
John